February 23, 2012
Someday, someone will be talking about Lakendra Scott once she makes her mark in adult entertainment and I’ll be thinking to myself, “Yeah, and you saw her first at CaramelsTGirls.com.” Lakendra is an amateur model who wants to break into the industry in a big way. She knows that there’s more to establishing a career in the business than just looking pretty and she’s ready to make the commitment to work extremely hard to attain her goal.
Caramel: You’re at the tender age of 26 now. When did you first begin dressing, Lakendra?
Lakendra: Well I feel older than I look… LOL! But I think I started at about 14 years old.
Caramel: When would you say that you first began feeling comfortable with your femininity?
Lakendra: I’m still having a battle with that. I have a lot of personalities and that’s one of ’em.
Caramel: How and when did you tell your beautiful wife about it and what sort of response from her did you expect?
Lakendra: It’s crazy, she thought I was cheating on her until she saw the photos in my camera. I had a lot of stuff on it. She fell in love with them, but this is very recent, not even a month… *giggles*
Caramel: Before you began coming to bed in girl mode, were you the more sexually dominant person in your relationship with your wife?
Lakendra: I’m still very dominant. Nothing changes with that.. But I’ll give her the “Go” to be the man and I’ll be the lady sometimes. And the fun thing is that it switches every night.
Caramel: Do you think that your wife saw an opening to be more dominant with you once your more feminine personae entered into your relationship?
Lakendra: Hell yeah! Giggles! She would be a very powerful man “literally”.
Caramel: You’ve told me about a pivitol moment during strapon sex with your wife in which while she was penetrating you for the first time. You identified with what it must feel like for a woman to be fucked. What triggered your emotinal reaction and how did your wife help you overcome your sensitive situation?
Lakendra: I felt a little used you know! But she RE-A-SSURED our positions in our marriage and held me and told me it was okay. But she wasn’t done with me that night!
Caramel: Hmmm, I’ll bet she wasn’t. *wink* Now that your wife knows that you like being penetrated, does she ever ask you if you want it with a real cock?
Lakendra: Every day! See my wife is a business woman, and she knows how a industry can turn a person out. So she is my safety net.
Caramel: Have you ever had an “open relationship” experience and welcomed a third party into your lovemaking?
Lakendra: Yes. I let my friend fuck my wife, but I made love to her mentally – kissing her, keeping her in my face. My wife can’t suck anyone’s dick because I have to kiss her, and no booty shots because that’s mines… we take our marriage seriously!
Caramel: Are there any tinges of jealousy on your part knowing someone else wants her and is attracted to her? Does she ever get jealous of the attention you’re getting?
Lakendra: She’s more jealous of me! I know how men look at her and I like to see her getting fucked. It turns me on. Having two genders in one person like me bothers her a ‘lil, but I think she likes it as well.
Caramel: You’ve been getting a lot of attention from men lately. Being that you’re married and love the intimacy and lovemaking with a genetic woman, do you ever fantasize about being with a man?
Lakendra: Once! But the guy I saw I’ve never seen again! And I would have loved take all of his tool in my mouth, he was like “wow”!
Caramel: Sounds yummy. Do you ever fantasize lovemaking with another tgirl star?
Lakendra: Sheeba Star! Period!
There are a lot of high profile black transgenders out there, but not even a quarter of those of other races who have achieved mainstream and adult industry notoriety? Why do you think there are so few black tgirls getting recognition?
Lakendra: I wouldn’t say it’s because of race. I would think they’re not very business minded or they just never got the chance to get recognized…you know that happens sometimes.
Caramel: Yeah, I know what you mean and it is what it is. Anyway, you’ve described yourself as being a “hood type of person” who is book smart and professional. I have many friends who fit that description, but many people I know think that being hood and intelligent can’t co-exist. What do you have to say about that?
Lakendra: Some of the smartest black men and women in the world has hood in them. They just know when to bring it out. I can show you how to cook coke…but on the flip side I can tell you when George Washington sailed to Denmark.. lol…”)
Caramel: You and your wife Peaches were blessed with a child. At what age do you think she’ll be when you have a sit down talk and tell her there’s a lot more going on with your gender identity than with most dads?
Lakendra: What she don’t know won’t hurt her. But if she does find out, I would tell her “the world is basic upon choices”. And you can be who you want to be as well and daddy will still love her… Lol. But see seen some pictures of me and she called me pretty. I wanted to cry!
Caramel: Does the rest of your family know about Lakendra? If not, how would they react?
Lakendra: No they don’t know. My mommy might be okay with it, but my DADDY!! No! He won’t approve.. I played cornerback in high school and won a championship, something he never did when he played in high school, so I’m the conversation with his friends… He would be hurt.
Caramel: I have no siblings and the aspect of incest doesn’t offend me unless it involves rape. What two consenting adults do is none of my business. You’ve made no secret of the fact that you’ve had sex with your biological sister. How and when did that happen?
Lakendra: I was about 4 or 5 and she use to ride me and play with my dick to get me up. So sex was early in life for me.. I felt violated. She would make me do it when I didn’t want to.
Caramel: I can’t think of any other way to describe that situation other than rape and I’m sorry, hon. If she knew about your feminine side, how do you think she’d react to it?
Lakendra: Our relationship with is like a scale…Up and down. But she’s in the sex industry herself, so I don’t think she would care.
Caramel: Just because you submit to your wife’s strapon doesn’t mean you’re into BDSM so let me ask you if you’re into the Domination and submission lifestyle.
Lakendra: I’m really aggressive! I’m a fighter I’m not turned on by anyone I can beat the shit out of.. submission is with my wife only!
Caramel: I think I’m pretty much done with asking you to reply to my more personal and intimate questions. Please give me a Top Five list of your favorite movies.
Lakendra: 1) Fight Club (Brad Pitt), 2) Gladiator (Russell Crowe), 3) The Ugly Truth (Gerard Butler), Anything With Bruce Lee and And 18 again (George Burns).
Caramel: What are some of the most recent songs on your playlist?
Lakendra: Sweet November (Babyface and Troop), Come On Over (Teddy Pendergrass), Eminem and Royce da 5’9″, Water Runs Dry (Boyz 2 Men), Master Blaster (Stevie Wonder), and my first wife… Lol anything Mary J. Blige.
Caramel: Thank you so much for the interview, Lakendra.